Wednesday, January 30, 2008

The lady or the Tiger?

Heard of this story? Below is an approximate copy-paste edition:


IN THE very olden time, there lived a semi-barbaric king, whose ideas, though somewhat polished and sharpened by the progressiveness of distant Latin neighbors, were still large, florid, and untrammelled, as became the half of him which was barbaric. He was a man of exuberant fancy, and, withal, of an authority so irresistible that, at his will, he turned his varied fancies into facts. He was greatly given to self-communing; and, when he and himself agreed upon any thing, the thing was done. When every member of his domestic and political systems moved smoothly in its appointed course, his nature was bland and genial; but whenever there was a little hitch, and some of his orbs got out of their orbits, he was blander and more genial still, for nothing pleased him so much as to make the crooked straight, and crush down uneven places.

Among the borrowed notions by which his barbarism had become semified was that of the public arena, in which, by exhibitions of manly and beastly valor, the minds of his subjects were refined and cultured.

But even here the exuberant and barbaric fancy asserted itself. The arena of the king was built, not to give the people an opportunity of hearing the rhapsodies of dying gladiators, nor to enable them to view the inevitable conclusion of a conflict between religious opinions and hungry jaws, but for purposes far better adapted to widen and develop the mental energies of the people. This vast amphitheatre, with its encircling galleries, its mysterious vaults, and its unseen passages, was an agent of poetic justice, in which crime was punished. Or virtue rewarded, by the decrees of an impartial and incorruptible chance.


When a subject was accused of a crime of sufficient importance to interest the king, public notice was given that on an appointed day the fate of tile accused person would be decided in the king's arena,--a structure which well deserved its name; for, although its form and plan were borrowed -from afar, its purpose emanated solely from the brain of this man, who, every barleycorn a king, knew no tradition to which he owed more allegiance than pleased his fancy, and who ingrafted on every adopted form of human thought and action the rich growth of his barbaric idealism.

When all the people had assembled in the galleries, and the king, surrounded by his court, sat high up on his throne of royal state on one side of the arena, he gave a signal, a door beneath him opened, and the accused subject stepped out into the amphitheatre. Directly opposite him, on the other side of the enclosed space, were two doors, exactly alike and side by side. It was the duty and the privilege of the person on trial, to walk directly to these doors and open one of them. He could open either door he pleased: he was subject to no guidance or influence but that of the aforementioned impartial and incorruptible chance. If he opened the one, there came out of it a hungry tiger, the fiercest and most cruel that could be procured, which immediately sprang upon him, and tore him to pieces, as a punishment for his guilt. The moment that the case of the criminal was thus decided, doleful iron bells were clanged, great wails went up from the hired mourners posted on the outer rim of the arena, and the vast audience, with bowed heads and downcast hearts, wended slowly their homeward way, mourning greatly that one so young and fair, or so old and respected, should have merited so dire a fate.

But, if the accused person opened the other door, there came forth from it a lady, the most suitable to his years and station that his majesty could select among his fair subjects; and to this lady he was immediately married, as a reward of his innocence. It mattered not that he might already possess a wife and family, or that his affections might be engaged upon an object of his own selection: the king allowed no such subordinate arrangements to interfere with his great scheme of retribution and reward. The exercises, as in the other instance, took place immediately, and in the arena. Another door opened beneath the king, and a priest, followed by a band of choristers' and dancing maidens blowing joyous airs on golden horns and treading an measure, advanced to where the pair stood side by side; and the wedding was promptly and cheerily solemnized. Then the gay brass bells rang forth their merry peals, the people shouted glad hurrahs, and the innocent man, preceded by children strewing flowers on his path, led his bride to his home.

This was the king's semi-barbaric method of administering justice. Its perfect fairness is obvious. The criminal could not know out of which door would come the lady: he opened either he pleased, without having the slightest idea whether, in the next instant, he was to be devoured or married. On some occasions the tiger came out of one door, and on some out of the other. The decisions of this tribunal were not only fair, they were positively determinate: the accused person was instantly punished if he found himself guilty; and, if innocent, he was rewarded on the spot, whether he liked it or not. There was no escape from the judgments or the king's arena.The institution was a very popular one. When the people gathered together on one of the great trial days, they never knew whether they were to witness a bloody slaughter or a hilarious wedding. This element of uncertainty lent an interest to the occasion which it could not otherwise have attained. Thus, the masses were entertained and pleased, and the thinking part of the community could bring no charge of unfairness against this plan; for did not the accused person have the whole matter in his own hands?



This semi-barbaric king had a daughter as blooming as his most florid fancies, and with a soul as fervent and imperious as his own. As is usual in such cases, she was the apple of his eye, and was loved by him above all humanity. Among his courtiers was a young man of that fineness of blood and lowness of station common to the conventional heroes of romance who love royal maidens. This royal maiden was well satisfied with her lover, for he was handsome and brave to a degree unsurpassed in all this kingdom; and she loved him with an ardor that had enough of barbarism in it to make it exceedingly warm and strong. This love affair moved on happily for many months, until one day the king happened to discover its existence. He did not hesitate nor waver in regard to his duty in the premises. The youth was immediately cast into prison, and a day was appointed for his trial in the king's arena. This, of course, was an especially important occasion; and his majesty, as well as all the people, was greatly interested in the workings and development of this trial.




Never before had such a case occurred; never before had a subject dared to love the daughter of a king. In after-years such things became commonplace enough; but then they were, in no slight degree, novel and startling. The tiger-cages of the kingdom were searched for the most savage and relentless beasts, from which the fiercest monster might be selected for the arena; and the ranks of maiden youth and beauty throughout the land were carefully surveyed by competent judges, in order that ,he young man might have a fitting bride in case fate did not determine for him a different destiny. Of course, everybody knew that the deed with which the accused was charged had been done. He had loved the princess, and neither he, she, nor any one else thought of denying the fact; but the king would not think of allowing any fact of this kind to interfere with the workings of the tribunal, in which he took such great delight and satisfaction. No matter how the affair turned out, the youth would be disposed of; and the king would take an aesthetic pleasure in watching the course of events, which would determine whether or not the young man had done wrong in allowing himself to love the princess.The appointed day arrived. From far and near the people gathered, and thronged the great galleries of the arena; and crowds, unable to gain admittance, massed themselves against its outside walls. The king and his court were in their places, opposite the twin doors,--those fateful portals, so terrible in their similarity.



All was ready. The signal was given. A door beneath the royal party opened, and the lover of the princess walked into the arena. Tall, beautiful, fair, his appearance was greeted with a low hum of admiration and anxiety. Half the audience had not known so grand a youth had lived among them. No wonder the princess loved him! What a terrible thing for him to be there!As the youth advanced into the arena, he turned, as the custom was, to bow to the king: but he did not think at all of that royal personage; his eyes were fixed upon the princess, who sat to the right of her father. Had it not been for the moiety of barbarism in her nature, it is probable that lady would not have been there; but her intense and fervid soul would not allow her to be absent on an occasion in which she was so terribly interested. From the moment that the decree had gone forth, that her lover should decide his fate in the king's arena, she had thought of nothing, night or day, but this great event and the various subjects connected with it. Possessed of more power, influence, and force of character than any one who had ever before been interested in such a case, she had done what no other person had done,--she had possessed herself of the secret of the doors. She knew in which of the two rooms, that lay behind those doors, stood the cage of the tiger, with its open front, and in which waited the lady. Through these thick doors, heavily curtained with skins on the inside, it was impossible that any noise or suggestion should come from within to the person who should approach to raise the latch of one of them; but gold, and the power of a woman's will, had brought the secret to the princess.


And not only did she know in which room stood the lady ready to emerge, all blushing and radiant, should her door be opened, but she knew who the lady was. It was one of tile fairest and lovelies-L of the damsels of the court who had been selected as the reward of the accused youth, should he be proved innocent of the crime of aspiring to one so far above him; and the princess hated her. Often had she seen, or imagined that she had seen, this fair creature throwing glances of admiration upon the person of her lover, and sometimes she thought these glances were perceived and even returned. Now and then she had seen them talking together; it was but for a moment or two, but much can be said in a brief space; it may have been on most unimportant topics, but how could she know that? The girl was lovely, but she had dared to raise her eyes to the loved one of the princess; and, with all the intensity of the savage blood transmitted to her through long lines of wholly barbaric ancestors, she hated the woman who blushed and trembled behind that silent door.
When her lover turned and looked at her, and his eye met hers as she sat there paler and whiter than any one in the vast ocean of anxious faces about her, he saw, by that power of quick perception which is given to those whose souls are one, that she knew behind which door crouched the tiger, and behind which stood the lady. He had expected her to know it. He understood her nature, and his soul was assured that she would never rest until she had made plain to herself this thing, hidden to all other lookers-on, even to the king. The only hope for the youth in which there was any element of certainty was based upon the success of the princess in discovering this mystery; and the moment he looked upon her, he saw she had succeeded, as in his soul he knew she would succeed.
Then it was that his quick and anxious glance asked the question: "Which?" It was as plain to her as if he shouted it from where he stood. There was not an instant to be lost. The question was asked in a Rash; it must be answered in another.
Her right arm lay on the cushioned parapet before her. She raised her hand, and made a slight, quick movement toward the right.
No one but her lover saw her. Every eye but his was fixed on the man in the arena.
He turned, and. with a firm and rapid step he walked across the empty space. Every heart stopped beating, every breath was held, every eye was fixed immovably upon that man. Without the slightest hesitation, he went to the door on the right, and opened it.Now, the point of the story is this: Did the tiger come out of that door, or did the lady?
I won't pretend to know who came out of the door, I guess that is not the point. The point, I think is to ponder this supposed dilemma & imagine what we would do in this situation. If I was the courtier I would definitely open the door I was pointed towards too. If I was the princess? I just can't imagine being responsible for the death of the person I love. But I still might understand the ferocity of her emotions.

We were asked this question in school & encouraged to ponder alternate endings. Being the eternal optimist that I have been accused of being, I would let my love open the road to the lady & trust in his support & the power & perseverance of my love to over-throw this barbaric regime, fix this stupid system & then elope with my true love!
PS: A quick note about the pics; I am such a balcony photographer! All the photos capture the same scene; the view from the balcony of my previous apartment. I guess they represent the various different ways people look at things. :)

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Cloudy conversations

Intresting to note.. how our conversations have changed after one meeting....

Tag cloud for all for emails exchanged:

the most frequently used word was work...

Tag cloud for our blog till date:

way to go i say....

Monday, January 28, 2008

Starry Connection

The best summarized Scorpio-Libra relationship prediction:

This relation can create physical, emotional and sexual attraction. However, Libra will find Scorpio more overwhelming at times. The secret of joy is to find a common point to
share which gives pleasure and satisfaction to both.There is a mutual attraction
between Libra's charming allure and Scorpio's sex appeal.Libra is the sign of
relationships, whether it's amorous affairs, best buddies, extreme enemies or
close kith and kin.And Scorpio is the sign of sex and deep desires.Those lovely
librans always aim to be balanced, which means they pretend not to get excited
about anything.But Scorpios are some of those fortunate folk who can entice a
few shakes, rattles and rolls out their Libran lovers. With their never-ending need to be one half of a harmonious happy family, Librans think they like to be possessed, in a mental as well as a physical fashion.Sometimes the infinite intensity of the Scorpio can be a wee bit too much for the
mentally-motivated Libran, who likes to keep life light and airy. As long as they can keep their cuddles caring and caressing without becoming complicated and claustrophobic, both lovers should be laughing

So that you can continue.... devising work-arounds to avoid potential pitfalls....

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Something...with which i cried along a lot..

Not so long go..when i was coping with heartbreak, incidently also happen to be coping with italian language at the same time.....

The wierd combo.. lead to me to fall in love with this song..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJzChLgX1W0

The specialy translated lyrics go:

Yesterday I understood, I start without you

And you are like missing air…..Almost as if I was transparent
I want to escape and hide away from all this, but everything is motionless

Without speaking …..
I was unable to remove you and delete all the pages with your image..…
And live… as if I had never been in love… And live…
As if I had never been in love ..
I survived… Once again…I don’t know how….
The weather sometimes helped .. I felt less bad.
I was able to forget….
But still it is too soon, and everything is motionless…
Without speaking …..
I was unable to remove you and delete all the pages with your image..…
And live… as if I had never been in love…
As if it had never been love…
I would like to flee.. I would like to hide….
But the rest is like this… unspoken.. unsaid “Please Stay”
I abandon those pages…
And then…. and then and then…. Live.
I as I had not been in love..
As if it had never been love….

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Adoption rules..

Simple rules for "happily ever ...."



Never underestimate enthusiasm...


Its all about the money, honey!


Kindly tolerate crazy choices!


Make sure your bed time stories are good!

Do not contest perfection!



Dancing is mandatory!

Monday, January 21, 2008

A story for you.

STORYCORPS: A very interesting project in America. It is basically a mobile recording booth that is moving around the country. Everyday Americans can book an appointment to go and record their personal stories, interview loved ones etc. All the interviews are archived in the library of congress & it is called 'an oral history project.'

They play one story each week on Friday mornings on Public radio, during my morning commute to work. Just listening to initial guitar tune really makes my day! Some of the stories are quite emotional & make me cry, but this ain't one of them:

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=7776653
(please just follow the audio link on the page)

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Not fast enough??


I read this quote that reminded me so much of you....

"If everything seems under control, you're not going fast enough!"

- Mario Andretti

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Why I need to go to Zurich again…


Going to the opera is considered very romantic I guess…. I always thought like a normal girl next door I will go there someday with some one special, little did I know…..

I had a day to myself in Zurich, was suppose to meet my uncle the next day, so was roaming about trying to locate a museum….due to my expert map interpretation abilities managed to entry the above building…

I had never seen anything as elegant before.. .. ..I see everyone else dressed up and they have this posh space to hang coats and… I can’t help thinking… wow what I nice museum!! I feel like I am in rags… (Otherwise considered as perfectly smart clothes)
The guy at the ticket counter doesn’t speak English, so thankfully sends me to inquiry counter….

Over there after explaining the brief background and history of the building they ask me “Which show would you like ? we have an Italian and German version” that is when I finally realized….. I had walked into the world famous “Zurich opera house”.

Thankfully I didn’t get tongue tied and made an excuse and I can’t make to Italian show and I don’t understand German… and promised to be back on my next visit (mentally saying ….better equipped for sure). I did go back to Zurich after that, but didn’t still see the opera….



Some day I still hope to see an opera with someone special….

Monday, January 14, 2008

Love is..





"She is more capable than most in this village. And she is led by love. The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe."


- From 'The Village', on why this blind girl is the one who can get help by crossing the woods that are the domain of Those We Do Not Speak Of



"Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all, those who live without love."

- Dumbledore to Harry Potter in The Deathly Hallows. How True!

Sunday, January 13, 2008

If Time stops.....



.......I hope its here.

with U?

These pictures taken during a backpacking trip thru the beautiful pictured rocks national park, along the lake superior in Michigan.

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Thursday, January 10, 2008

Mood Board...for the week..

Raring to go...again..


All time favorite hobby... moon gazing..

Laziness personified....



Slowly getting back on my toes....

I speak no evil....

Could go back to bed even now....

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Happy new year 2008...a new beginning? :)

2007 ended on the most pleasant note...a trip to India!
say Hello to Monty & chotu..commiserating over the cessation of breakfast.
Over to the the jungle resort....

... and the jungle safari....

check out the 10x zoom on my new canon.


on top of Ramtek.

dancing on the streets on Nagpur, with the dulha too!

to the 'skyscrapers' of powai..
..we actually stayed at this guest house , in a film-studio in powai...but that is a story for later.


..back to the snowy vistas of Ann Arbor...

..that quickly turned foggy & surreal.

Sadly the most important photo of this travelogue is missing. :)

Monday, January 7, 2008

“Hajimemashite” is a unique word from a fairly unique language, for a fairly unique story like our, it couldn’t have been more apt. Literary translated merely means “Pleased to meet you”, but this word is said only the first time you meet someone…
It signifies the start, a path, a beginning between two people…
I am guessing it is said only once because once you start something, it always continues and the start remains as an inimitable point in the path…. 

So here is to our start “Hajimemashite, Nihkilsan”!!
Cheers!